Seems to me that you created a job for yourself AND you're the boss. That's why you don't have time to have a life.

Now it's time to create a real business! It doesn't have to be a big company, unless you want it to be. But it should include creating a business plan, marketing plan, ideal client profile, systems, AND hire help!

Now that sounds like a lot of work, and it is. However, as you do each thing, you'll start gaining control of your time.

The hire help part. Usually starts like this:

a) house cleaner
b) organizer
c) book keeper
d) teenager to do odd jobs

Or a list simliar to that. ;) Do what my clients do once they start working with me. Create a wish list and then make your wishes come true!