What is your website? I see you posted your affiliate link, but how about the website you are referring too?

I think wpromote.com is an excellent source for getting your site indexed. It's $99/mo but they submit your site to 200 search engines every 30 days and include you in the Yahoo and Google sponsored results for 10 keywords.

I think it's worth it if you haven't got any significant traffic.

I have two top ten sites but the way I get popularity is:

1. Have relevant content and specify a target. I do so by talking about what I offer, keeping in mind people doing a search on Google and what they type in.

2. The next big thing is exchange relevant links with people, this doesn't mean with the competition. If you are in the market of selling wedding cakes, exchange links with photographers, etc, etc.